Really? Not
blogged for that long? I know (sigh). Not Twitted either since October. But my
many wounds had to heal. I'm sitting in bed, laptop
on lap, lazing about with the tin of Quality Street where I get to
choose my favourite. I feel better, much better now. Maybe it's time to
do hair and makeup, must try to look attractive, no, no, must BE attractive, will
squeeze my ass into a short tight skirt and my tits in a low cut bra under a sleeveless
silk halter style sweater with v-plunging neckline. Alluring. But, before, I want to enjoy the savoury
of a sudden impulse, I must visit my blog. First time in six months!
Again, in a
repeated body action recently
acquired, I'm combing my
hair with my fingers. It is true that with time a broken hart will heal
itself, but I have been
through hell. When you are filled with sadness, pain, resentment and emptiness
you either blog and tweet like mad, trying to lick your injuries, they are just
too big, and share with friends to get bits of comfort, warmth and affection...
or you run into hiding, break from the world, hibernate, not responding to texts
or calls and shy to even read your mails. I was so depressed and I holed up. I
know, by shutting out the world I surely made it all last longer, but couldn't
help. Blog and Twitter, Fetlife, social media at large were too closely linked
to Master.
OMFG to have any
idea of what I've been through you must spend at least one
year dating a cold-hearted bastard who was so perfect abroad, you were
confident he was caring for you as much as you loved him, and find out that back in England he is not only
cheating on you but also in a way pimping you! My life was so full with Master who introduced me
to D/s, I was ready to believe anything from him, yes I did love him and I
followed in such incredible situations and predicaments... I am a bimbo, a witless cunt! In a way he was right with his
frequent derogatory remarks
I thought I was dying when I just realized how screwed I was, when I grasped the naked truth. The
understanding enables us to see immediately when it's enough so I had to break immediately and run away.
Which I did, destroyed
and empty. I was at a total loss without him but I had to go. Why do I call him
Master or Sir now? You don't own me anymore, I am not your property anymore,
Sir. It is your fault, not mine, you know it. You deceived me. But I still feel
bad when I call you by your given name, G... I should, you are no more than a
jerk, a manipulative bastard, but
I can't. It's so ... stilted, Sir.
You don't own me
anymore, Sir. While writing that, I do not cry, not any longer, but my eyes are
still wet. I don't cry so often now. I am ok now. Yes, I am ok, though I miss
so much your voice saying "good girl".
When I ran away
from Master's new house, I was still jobless if I had some savings, and my
parents told me to come over in the South and stay as long as I wanted with
them. So sweet. They even avoided giving their views on my life, and all my family
around was so nice faced with my difficult times.
I have left them
now, got some good contacts to try and get a decent job and start building up a
new life. I am not owned anymore. The slave must learn from her mistakes, grow and
do better. One of many, the story of an online close friend (hugs, Christine)
helped me a lot through my "mourning", as she went through a similar trouble
and she showed herself so strong.
I certainly owe
you the story of how we got there. Next post.
Kiss
Alex
Welcome Back Alexia,
ReplyDeletealthough I was hoping to read something completely different when I discovered you posted a new message, I'm glad to read you're kinda doing fine or at least on your way to start healing and finding your own way in life.
A break up is always painful, even for those that enjoy pain ;-) but realizing you are not being loved, but simply used and pimped must be hell ! I hope you recover soon and in time dare to trust a new Master again.
Mr Fish
Thank you!
ReplyDeleteAlexia,
ReplyDeleteI find it so fascinating that we found ourselves in similar predicaments, at similar times. I feel such sadness that you endured the things that you did. That the dream that he surely crafted around you had to shatter. That reality was cruel and shocking. I am acutely aware of how that feels. My journey away from him was one of debauchery. I would not let another man treat me that way, by God. I turned the tables and was in charge, for once. I had many lovers, and didn't care how I treated them. But after awhile I calmed down, I realized debauchery was not what I wanted. It made me feel sad and even more empty. And looking back, I think I became him. Treating people with little regard, shaming myself.
For me, it was a powerful lesson. Something I believe I had to go through to realize what I want in life. The type of man I want and need. It also made me realize the man I do NOT want. In fact, only a few months ago "Sir" showed up on my doorstep, basically begging me to come back. The spell he had woven around me had been broken. He no longer had power over my spirit. It was comforting to know that.
I am stronger for the lesson. So much stronger.
I hope your journey back to YOU is almost complete.
You are a beautiful, passionate, exquisite woman. Go conquer the world.
I will always be here for you,
Christine
Christine,
ReplyDeleteYou're definitely the nicest, smartest and most perceptive girl I know. Caring, and so much helpful and empathetic at all times. Reading you I was sheding tears partly thanks to the fantastic lesson you're giving, so helpful, and partly because I was so deeply happy to hear from you.
Yes we walk similar routes, and the one you followed after you left your Sir was again close to mine. I'll tell you more about it, you'll be surprised.
Thanks again for your inspiring and stimulating message, I will model myself on you.
Tender hugs
Alexia